COMMUNICATION IS A VERY ESSENTIAL FACTOR I N RELATIONSHIPS
A romantic relationship begins at a healthy note and it kick starts
with infatuation and exciting sleepless nights! Love feels just perfect
and your partner seems like the extended version of soul mate you’ve
been searching for! But, one small issue can bring down this love for a
hefty amount, the issue is understanding and communication.
It’s
a very simple thing. Most of the problems between partners creep in
because of lack of understanding and the communication issue. Ego
clashes may come between you and your partner which may hinder the
communication between the two of you.
The start of an unhealthy
relationship may begin with these signs. If you tend to see any of these
signs in your relationship, then you should definitely communicate with
your partner about the same.
1. Affairs!
Affairs can be
seen in different forms, be it emotional affection or a sexual one. It
can ruin the relationship you both share. It definitely is not
acceptable when you invest your partner’s share of love and affection
towards somebody else. That may act as a force which will drift you
apart.
2. Lack of respect!
In a decent relationship, both
partners need to respect each other! They make promises and abide by
them. They don’t speak ill of each other and they accept each other as
they are.
3. ‘Not so normal’ jealousy!
Being jealous of your
partner will so not going to work when you are trying to make your
relationship reach heights. Envy is not always bad but it should not
turn into jealousy as it may ruin the relationship you share
4. The ‘competition’ factor!
When you start feeling small or powerless in a relationship, then it’s
time for you to talk to your partner about this particular issue. Your
life is not there to turn it into a power struggle just to prove that
you’re up in the game.
5. Lack of emotional attachment!
Emotional intimacy is very important in a relationship to grow further.
It can take a lifetime to grow but it’s definitely worth the wait. There
will always be some secrets which will prevent both of you from getting
any closer. If you want to have the experience of a lifetime, then you
need to be emotionally comfortable with the person you’re with.
6. Comparisons!
There comes a phase when you like to change some of things about your
partner. The reality is that you should not compare your partners with
the other people, be it your ex or some crush. Comparisons will always
tend to damage the relationship.
7. Expectations of the family!
You would have experienced this thing very often. At times, families do
interfere in your personal matters which they should not. It may take a
toll on your relationship and make it an unhealthy.
8. Give and take!
Relationships are most of the time based on this thing! A relationship
needs some compromises and a bundle of sacrifices to make it work at a
healthier pace. Only one partner cannot run the relationship in any
manner. Both of them need to put in their way to make it work.
9. The silent treatment!
Differences are bound to happen between lovers and this happens every
now and then. The main thing is how you deal with them. The method of a
silent treatment will be effective in some way but it can be dangerous
too. It may lead to unnecessary secrets and frustrations.
10. Dishonesty and secrecy!
A relationship will never succeed if you keep dragging all kinds of
dishonesty and secrecy in between! Just try to be as honest as you can. A
frank lie will be harmless but a sweet truth will results in destroying
the relation altogether.
11. Expectations and desires!
It’s
natural if you possess any kind of secret expectations from your
partner and you don’t tell them about it. Expectations are a part of
relationship but it should be realistic and well communicated!
12. Physical intimacy is stopping you!
It is unfortunate if you and your partner are together just because of
the physical intimacy between you two. A romantic relationship won’t
work if it doesn’t possess well communication and attraction.
13. Insecurity!
Insecurity is one thing which can actually shake your mental imbalance.
It is common in a relationship but it should be dealt with proper
thinking. It should not offend your partner in any way and there’s no
point making an issue out of it.
14. The testing phase!
These testing games have gone viral these days. Every now and then,
people seek this way of proving their partner wrong in some way or the
other. This tends to bring some of the differences in between the two
which is not worth the shot.
15. Physical intimacy is a must!
True love is not the only thing which you need for a successful
relationship or marriage. Physical intimacy is one thing which needs a
lot of attention if you need a glimpse of romance.
16. You like the idea of love!
Do you have the feeling when you just want somebody to pamper you all
the time but you are not in love? But you need to keep this in mind that
staying in a relationship out of no love will never give you much
happiness!
17. Controlling power!
A controlling freak will
do anything to make things go his way. This will definitely not be liked
by another person who is in the relationship. A relationship does not
have to be dominated by one. It is one such thing of balance and
understanding.
18. Incompatibility!
Incompatibility should
not come in between any relationship. Communication is a must thing to
detect any such thing and it’s good to get rid of it as soon as
possible.
There is an answer to the pain of lost love and dashed dreams. Hope comes through Jesus Christ,
the son of God. He offers healing for the wounds you feel right now.
He offers to walk with you through difficult times and laugh with you
when life goes well.