CHOOSING A LIFE PARTNER, WHAT U SHOULD KNOW!!!

CHOOSING A LIFE PARTNER...
>>Choose the person who makes you smile even when you’re down. Stay away from the person who brings you down even when you’re smiling.
>>Choose the person who makes you feel good about yourself. Stay away from the person who makes you feel bad about yourself – as though you don’t quite measure up.
>>Choose the person who fits in well with your family. Avoid the person who ridicules your family, causes tension, or tries to start trouble. So not worth it.
>>Choose the person who makes life fun! Avoid the person who seems to be allergic to fun and laughter.
>>Choose the person who has similar interests to your own. Sure, you need to have individual interests as well, but you should have plenty of things in common. If you don’t, you’ll never have anything to talk about!
>>Choose the person who respects you, your opinions, your beliefs, and what you stand for. Avoid the person who’s looking for a clone of themselves. Give them a mirror and send them on their way.

ADVICE!!!


Only God knows and truly understands your unspoken and unexpressed disappointments and frustrations. Regardless of how loving and kind your spouse is, there are things about you they will never know or understand unless you tell them. Keeping your feelings bottled up hoping that your spouse will somehow guess what you’re feeling is not only unfair but also very wrong. Don’t blame your spouse for not responding to any unexpressed feelings. Likewise don’t withhold expressing your true feelings for the sake of keeping peace or avoiding confrontations. Freely and calmly express your disappointments, frustrations and fears. And, don’t forget to also express gratitude, appreciation and admiration; apologizing where appropriate and giving credit when it is due.
‪#‎Togetherforever‬

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     A real life story wt do u think!!!
I got married to this man who is working in another state. Before the wedding he only sent a token meanwhile I worked in a federal government establishment, most of the marriage bills I paid like hall canopies caterers dj mc., I didn't complain cos I really love and wanted to settle down with him, he came back and we got married and then he travelled back, he hardly comes. Back to see me, so one of his friend went to see him and saw a woman with ripe pregnancy in his house, his friend asked who she was and he said his wife, that they have been married for few years before meeting me, his friend came back and told me everything and gave me the address so I traced him and saw him on boxers and the lady on night gown, so the lady was wondering what was going on and my husband pushed me away from the house and was embarrassing me, neighbours gathered and I showed them our church wedding pix and the woman that was staying with him said so u lied to me that you were going to a friends wedding so it was your wedding and I had to borrow you money which you sent to her for preparation? I had to leave the place in tears because I made new furnitures and was about moving to a better apartment but now my effort to be with my husband is something else, I told my people am no longer interested and they said no one can break a church wedding. pls what do I do?, my marriage is just five months old