ANOTHER MISTAKES LADIES DO LIVING WITH A MAN THEY ARE NOT MARRIED TO!!!

ONLY TIME HE GETS IN BED IS WHEN HE WANTS SEX. hmmmmmmm

I'm with my man for 6years now. things has not been sunshine all the time. He has been cheating on me several times and everytime i approach him about it, he is telling me i don't give him attention. yet when we do get home from work he goes and sit in front of TV there he will stay untill 2 or 3am in the morning. he has pushed me away so many times that i end up liking it all by myself. only time he gets in bed early is when he wants to satisfy his needs & when i don't want to..... he gets angry. I'm about to walk out of the relationship. Now he wants to pretend that he cares & even cry to make me feel bad. how do i look him in the eyes and tell him that i no longer love him the way i use to love him before? i cannot see us more than friends at the moment, i have tried for a whole year to make it work again between us and I'm not just getting anywere with him.

 

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Sometimes relationships can seem like a lot of work until you sit back and realize just how much you've been given. A thriving, healthy relationship requires some give and take, and is absolutely within your reach if you and your partner are willing to do a bit of work. If you and your partner are right for each other, all the work will definitely be worth it in the end

OUR LOVE THRIVES ON EMPTY POCKET


I am in a 7 years relationship. i met him in church and we clicked. he was in school then, so was I. i was a part time student so i had the opportunity to work.
sometimes I support him financially cos i am not the expensive type so i get to save more. He has proposed to me and i said yes. This guy is everything I want but the financial aspects is the fear.
we are both working now but his income is very small, mine is more than his. His family likes me, as a matter of fact, they are all over me. same with my family. He said he cant wait to have me in his house. But his income is my worry. The reason why we have been coping is because i am not  expensive or demanding. Now we are planning introduction and he isn't giving me any money even when i asked. But i love him, he loves me too. Even if we decide to do a quite wedding, how about coping in marriage and with the kids?? pls am confused need ur advice, the love is there but the money isn;t. 

  what do u think this lady should do?

CAN TRUE LOVE REALLY BE EXPLAINED?

LOVE LOVE LOVE!!! What do you know about true love;true love can make you do things that you have never thought to of doing in your life.You can reach a point of missing food,a sleepless night,losing weight just because your partner is sad of you,so sick or going a throught a tough situation.trust me true love can change you,you can even reach to a point of breaking your principles,.true love can teach how to care

CHOOSING A LIFE PARTNER, WHAT U SHOULD KNOW!!!

CHOOSING A LIFE PARTNER...
>>Choose the person who makes you smile even when you’re down. Stay away from the person who brings you down even when you’re smiling.
>>Choose the person who makes you feel good about yourself. Stay away from the person who makes you feel bad about yourself – as though you don’t quite measure up.
>>Choose the person who fits in well with your family. Avoid the person who ridicules your family, causes tension, or tries to start trouble. So not worth it.
>>Choose the person who makes life fun! Avoid the person who seems to be allergic to fun and laughter.
>>Choose the person who has similar interests to your own. Sure, you need to have individual interests as well, but you should have plenty of things in common. If you don’t, you’ll never have anything to talk about!
>>Choose the person who respects you, your opinions, your beliefs, and what you stand for. Avoid the person who’s looking for a clone of themselves. Give them a mirror and send them on their way.

ADVICE!!!


Only God knows and truly understands your unspoken and unexpressed disappointments and frustrations. Regardless of how loving and kind your spouse is, there are things about you they will never know or understand unless you tell them. Keeping your feelings bottled up hoping that your spouse will somehow guess what you’re feeling is not only unfair but also very wrong. Don’t blame your spouse for not responding to any unexpressed feelings. Likewise don’t withhold expressing your true feelings for the sake of keeping peace or avoiding confrontations. Freely and calmly express your disappointments, frustrations and fears. And, don’t forget to also express gratitude, appreciation and admiration; apologizing where appropriate and giving credit when it is due.
‪#‎Togetherforever‬

TERRIBLE!!!



     A real life story wt do u think!!!
I got married to this man who is working in another state. Before the wedding he only sent a token meanwhile I worked in a federal government establishment, most of the marriage bills I paid like hall canopies caterers dj mc., I didn't complain cos I really love and wanted to settle down with him, he came back and we got married and then he travelled back, he hardly comes. Back to see me, so one of his friend went to see him and saw a woman with ripe pregnancy in his house, his friend asked who she was and he said his wife, that they have been married for few years before meeting me, his friend came back and told me everything and gave me the address so I traced him and saw him on boxers and the lady on night gown, so the lady was wondering what was going on and my husband pushed me away from the house and was embarrassing me, neighbours gathered and I showed them our church wedding pix and the woman that was staying with him said so u lied to me that you were going to a friends wedding so it was your wedding and I had to borrow you money which you sent to her for preparation? I had to leave the place in tears because I made new furnitures and was about moving to a better apartment but now my effort to be with my husband is something else, I told my people am no longer interested and they said no one can break a church wedding. pls what do I do?, my marriage is just five months old